i don't need him

i was thinking today about a professor i had last summer. she was a very nice woman, of Indian descent. she was a religion/philosophy professor, so thats the direction im going in. she once said, she didnt believe that a girl raised without a father could be a good parent. i was appalled. i mean absolutely hurt by what she said. i couldnt even hold my tongue. not only have i seen it done, insha allah when i become a parent i plan to be a damn good one. may Allah make it easy for me. anyway, i told her she was wrong. my mother didnt have a father around and she did a great job raising us. i have close friends who didnt have a father around for whatever reason, but they turned out magnificent. my stinkin daddy wasnt there for me but my children wont suffer because of it. alhamdulillah. my point is, that is bull crap. its just interesting that people say things like that, but once again everyone is entitled to their opinion.

signing out

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